Tuesday, 24 December 2013

The Worlds Special Secret

 'Our Special Secret'

 I have long maintained my belief that paedophilia is a sexual orientation. That it is an inate sexual preference which normally begins around puberty just as any other sexual preference. And that there is no 'cure'. Just as you cannot cure a heterosexual or a homosexual.
There are many levels and ranges of  child molestation. For example, there are exclusive and non-exclusive paedophiles. Those who never act on their desires, but think that watching child pornography is harmless-  To those who are career paedophiles and spend 24/7 on their obsessions. There are paedophiles that never sexually abuse children and non-paedophiles that do (As for monetary purposes).

And although, I can sympathise with paedophiles who NEVER act on their sexual desires. Either by refraining from sexually abusing a child or consuming child pornography (which is the same as physically abusing them, and should warrant similar sentencing). Remember- Paedosexuality is not their choice. And how would you feel if it was your teenage son who sexually desired children?
However, I have NO sympathy for the paedophiles that DO act, and sexually abuse children. Even though they do not 'choose' to be paedosexual, which is extremely unfortunate. I believe that they are psychopathic, due to their lack of apathy for the victim or remorse and self sexual gratification. They are also the most manipulative,cunning and deceptive of psychopaths and are usually sexually obsessed. And will NEVER stop procuring and abusing children. I believe that these psychopaths should be housed within facilities such as Coalingas state hospital (see video below) for an indefinate period.
Regardless of their sexual orientation. It is not morally or legally acceptable. As children cannot consent to sex and are deeply harmed by the abuse and it's consequences. These psychopathic paedophiles will continue to abuse children, seeing them only as sexual objects for their own sexual gratification. It is also common knowledge that the recidivism rates of these offenders are extremely high. Even after 'Therapy' or even when they are on the sex offenders register and being monitored by the authorities.
I myself, as a survivor of sexual abuse would gladly contribute my taxes, to house psychopathic paedophiles within hospitals such as Coalinga.
I also feel that there should be more services,online advise and help available for adolecent (non psychopathic) paedophiles, to acknowledge their orientation and help them refrain from offending. Rather than leaving them to their own thoughts and feelings and the possibility of unwanted development, which could potentially result in child sexual abuse.
I think that we should-
Not only acknowledge,address and use preventative measures regarding safeguarding children from sexual abuse. We should also do the same with young (non psychopathic) offenders...In order to prevent as much sexual abuse that we can.
Child sexual abuse will never stop...But we can try to minimise it

Is paedophilia a sexual orientation?

the impact of frequency and type of pornography use on recidivism among sexual offenders-

Database of UK and Eire paedophiles -

Paedophile still offending whilst being monitored by police-

Paedophiles have human rights to be taken off sex registers-

10 year old boy rapes girl after watching pornography -

Hundreds arrested in international child pornography -

Mr.Justice Joyce - sentencing remarks - Ian Watkins-

Facts about operation - Yewtree -

Pro-paedophile propaganda-

P.I.E Paedophile information exchange -

Child abuse facts/stats-

Help for paedophiles to control their desires (minor-attraction)

Website to help 'virtuous paedophiles'. This page of emails- help confirm that paedosexuality is a sexual orientation. Many of the emails state that they knew of their sexual preference from a young age, or are teenagers themselves.

Documentary about Coalinga state hospital, which houses paedophiles who have served their prison time. But are still considered too dangerous to be freed into society. They remain there indefinately, unless they prove that they are no longer a danger to children. Many do not even choose the therapy offered.


  1. Where are the supporting arguments - ie. evidence/ proof - backing up your "long-held belief" absolving [mature, responsible] adults of their FREE-WILL choices that define their fundamental sexuality? Just as you fail to provide one Lewis Carroll letter sexualizing children in any way (thus falling into rather than questioning paedophiles' inherently manipulative apparent innocent choice of patron saint) you fail to properly back up your fondly-held yet false assertions. Until you hone your powers of analysis, please leave fiction off your site and let just the facts speak f or themselves! Thanks..

    1. Let me make this crystal clear to you- I do not absolve paedophiles in any shape or form. What I am saying is that although I believe that paedophilia is not a mental illness or a deviant condition. It is a (most unfortunate) sexual orientation,it is their choice to abuse children. Children cannot consent to sex. I myself was sexually abused from an infant. I grew up surrounded by and abused by them until I was sixteen (At the age that I was trafficked and forced into pornography and prostitution. After my initial recovery at the age of thirty, I have researched them every day of my life.(25yrs) I even read their conversation on their forums. I live and breathe them, because they once lived and breathed me. I also train social workers about them in seminars. So apart from my lived experiences and the many links/information that I provided. Who do you feel is more qualified to understand the M.O. of paedophiles - Research/Analysis conducted in a clinical situation or psychological evaluations/assessments in which the paedophile conveys nothing but deception?

  2. Thanks for responding.. I believe you have arrived at a simple conclusion to a complex syndrome without enough proof/ supporting data. One must first take into account all known cases/ examples/ instances of paedophilia, then examine each of the subjects' background chronology/ family history etc. to uncover commonalaties & similarities therein on which to base initial theories - from which you could then draw tentative conclusions using your subjects' factual histories as supporting examples. That would cover one aspect only of your required research, as you would have to also acknowledge if not examine closely all previous historical analysis, literature, media reports, medical documentation et aL to include the body of research/ social documentation necessary for any serious learned study that carries any weight and influences future similar studie. Personal experience, while a compelling and powerful witness and certainly enough to support opinions, can only be a contributing factor in the massive body of research required to arrive at such a blanket conclusive statement that sticks on impact. So far, you are about an eighth of the way there (and being simply a survivor -victim- writer not a doctorate with a related degree, your job is even more uphill if you want your words to carry maximum impact/influence! Then again you could always leave the endless theorizing to those who are qualified & schooled for that specialized line of work and continue doing what you do best: documenting and studying the experiences unique to you. For that is where your qualifications cannot be contested nor your voice's validity be denied. Besides, non-fiction beats out fiction when it comes to education, every time!