The Prostituted.

The Prostitutor

The Prostituted.

I am no longer going to refer to children and women who sell their bodies as prostitutes or indeed sex workers.

The majority of these women and young girls do not 'choose' to sell sex in exchange for money.

They are 'prostituted' by pimps, who make vast amounts of money by the threatening or persuasive coercion of the vulnerable and by abducting or purchasing sex slaves.

Global prostitution generates an annual revenue of over a $100 billion and it is even more lucrative if you own a sex slave, especially if you own a young one, as the demand for children is escalating.

So, who do you think reaps the rewards?

The girls and women...

Or the iniquitous pimps who will sell children, the poverty stricken and drug addicted. Even their own daughters, girlfriends and wives?

The fastest growing criminal industry is sex trafficking and slavery. In 2009, the united nations stated that about 79% of human trafficking is for prostitution. I believe that figure has and is still rising daily.

Let's not forget the untold violence imposed upon the prostituted and the extremely high risk of homicides.

Since the advent, accessibility and availability of hard core pornography. Many more sex buyers are acting out their most deviant and violent fantasies on the prostituted. They don't actually care, if the child or woman is a victim of trafficking.

 And as for the myth that there are fewer rapes because of prostitution. Research on rapists behaviour states that these perpetrators are often known to the victim or are opportunists. 
In-fact, the more vulnerable and innocent the victim is, the more gratification is derived from the rape.

Besides which the prostituted are being raped multiple times a day.

People often say, 'yes being forced into prostitution is wrong, but what about those who choose to do it..They are doing it for the money and because they have low moral character'?

I would answer, maybe there are some who choose that life for those reasons. But, in my twenty years of research and messages from 'Sex workers' Including strippers,porn actors and prostitutes' I have never come across such women. I have only seen and heard from the trafficked, the abused and the drug addicted.

 Many of whom were victims of child sex abuse or prostituted as children and escaped their pain and trauma by turning to drugs. Which is a precursor to prostitution,which in turn perpetuates the abuse.

Prostitution only exists because of DEMAND and so there is only one solution to end this oppression and abuse or self abuse of children and women.

That is to turn the prostitution industry around. Instead of criminalising the prostitutes or legalising prostitution, (which won't drive it 'Underground' Prostitution already exists in the abyss of human deprivation.

 It is also the most dangerous lifestyle in the world.)

Criminalise the PIMPS and the BUYERS and ensure hope,benevolence and psychological aid and support to the 'prostituted'.

Future pornstar- groomed since aged 7-now prostituted into pornography

An example of Women who 'choose' sex work

sex buyers and non sex buyers research

child and adult prostitution

talking of prostitution

Tearing the victims apart in court

Victim of sex abuse ring is failed by police and social workers

prostituted women arrested 'named and addresses given'

A typical story of prostituted girls by a pimp 

It's not 'sex' that sells- It's female body parts.

A personal view...

In Victorian England, the male elite kept pornography hidden away from working class men, women and children. Apparently, for their own protection and welfare. They believed that pornography would encourage endless fornication, that would inevitably affect the workforce and corrupt the innocent.
Only they held privy to view, categorise and no doubt 'enjoy' their private collections. That were sought and acquired from every corner of the world.

During the 20th century, there was a complete turnaround. The realisation that selling women's bodies via printed publications, equated to considerable wealth and power. The two main providers (pimps/ procurer's) of this 'Paper prostitution' were again, the male elite. Namely, Rupert Murdoch and his male counterpart Hugh Hefner. Who introduced mainstream pornography into the U.K and America. They have both built their empires, not by selling 'sex' As is defined as your gender or sexual acts between people. They sell female body parts. Namely 'Breast's' and 'Bottoms'. And the age of these breasts and bottoms tend to be between sixteen and twenty five. And of mainly white Caucasian.Thereby pandering to many of the nations men and boys. And these males project their fantasies and sense of entitlement onto women and girls. And if we object when they shout "Get your tit's out" They justify our rebuffs by stating that we are either lesbians or jealous. This is both a visual and verbal oppression, that renders many girls and women silent.

On acquiring the much 'troubled' sun newspaper in 1969. Rupert Murdoch told the editor Larry Lamb-

"I want a tearaway paper-with lot's of Tit's in it!"

Thereby, confirming the selling of female body parts and depicting females as mere sexual objects. Which possibly caused many of their readers to unwittingly or subconsciously become both voyeurs and objectifiers.
This was a highly profitable rescue for the sun newspaper, whose circulation rose dramatically to 10 million daily readers in 1997.
It now has the ninth largest circulation of any newspaper in the world and the largest circulation of any daily newspaper in the U.K.
In January, it sold around 2.4 million copies a day.
Therefore, axing page 3 could mean financial suicide, by jeopardising it's circulation.
Many women's groups who have criticised page 3 as degrading, are regularly vilified by the Sun, as 'dour' and 'bitter'.
And, former minister Claire Short, who campaigned against page 3 in 1986. Was described as 'Fat and jealous'.
During the Leveson enquiry, Dominic Mohan (present sun editor) defended and justified page 3, by stating-
 "Page 3 celebrates natural beauty"
 Which to my mind, is a dressed up version of 'Using Tit's to sell papers' As his boss, the 'born again Christian' Rupert Murdoch emphasised in 1970.
Mohan also stated "We’re allowed to publish these images (Tit's) and I think it's become quite an innocuous British institution. Where, as a parent myself, I'm more concerned about images that my children might come across on the internet or on digital devices"

Maybe Mohan is pretending to be ignorant of sexual curiosity and pubescent arousal. After all, children naturally become sexually aware, normally around the age of 11. Funnily enough, that is the approximate age of first time, internet porn users.
The fact that soft-core pornography inevitably leads to hard-core pornography is well documented. Besides which, the 'Innocuous and family friendly' sun used to advertise two pages of porn sites. Nowadays, there's less, which usually consists of adverts pertaining to sex chat calls.

Rupert Murdoch is a prominent shareholder in BskyB. Which platforms pornography channels such as Playboy,Telx, red hot tv. and 3D porn.
So in effect, the sun newspaper wittingly and openly contributes to the promotion and viewing of pornography, and to the objectification of females.
 If it were merely a case of 'natural beauty', then why are the majority of page 3 females, slim, white and in their late teens or early twenties? Aren't all women beautiful,whatever their size, shape, age and ethnicity?
This all reminds me of most movie 'Rape' scenes. The victims are usually white, young, slim and busty too. There clothes are usually ripped off,exposing their breasts, thighs and buttocks. Whereas the perpetrator/s are fully clothed. That also goes for couple sex scenes, notice how the female is always nubile and usually the one least clothed. So, don't old, larger, unattractive people have sex then?
And where are the beautiful men?  Is the whole human race ugly, apart from young females?
The Daily mirror stopped featuring topless models in the 1980's, deeming that the images were demeaning to women.

And we all know that Rupert Murdoch has many politicians in his fat pockets. They would never bite the hand that politically and financially feeds them.
David Cameron's stance on banning page 3 was pathetic. He shirked responsibility by stating "It's the parents responsibility, turn the page"
Actually, It's not just children that should be protected David. I as an adult woman, want protection from the daily sexism that I encounter due to the acceptable objectification of females. That swamps women, as they constantly try to climb out of the abyss of historical and contemporary oppression.

 Nick Clegg matched the prime ministers brilliant solution by saying "I do not support a legislative ban on page 3, I believe that government in a liberal society should not dictate the content of newspapers. If you don't like it- don't buy it!"

So, these 'male elite' will continue to dismiss sexism and contribute to the 'Harmless' beginnings of the spiralling devastation of hard core pornography. Which creates countless victims on both sides of this iniquitous road, in the name of wealth and power.
Rupert Murdoch had the audacity to tweet this on May 2nd-  "'Is anyone complaining about Page 3 pix a reader. Enough of this elitist nonsense!' in response to the 'no more page 3 campaign'.

Here is my personal and open letter to those male elitists who sell women's body parts.

All of my life, I have known extreme sexism and still do. I existed merely as a sexual object to gratify males from the age of 18 months, when I was sexually molested by my Uncle. I was sexually abused between the ages of six and eight. By my mothers boyfriend, which mainly took place in the toilet. I can still remember the porn magazines, shoved behind the toilet pipe in front of me- whilst being molested. I continued to suffer sexual abuse, sexual harassment, rape, disrespect and sexual jeering, by every man that I knew or came across. I was surrounded by page 3 and pornography every day. And I grew up, thinking that this was the role of females. To be desired by men and gratify them. To be sexually available whenever and however they wanted.
At 16 years old, I was tricked and abducted by sex traffickers in London. I was forced into pornography and prostitution by violent coercion. Which included being viciously raped, physically beaten and threatened with weapons, including a gun.
These experiences impacted my life. Wasted my life. Destroyed my life.
 I had never been a human being. I had been a fleshed robot, that had obeyed and catered to men's sexual wants and needs. And there are millions of others out there, just like me.
Only last week, I went into my local shop to buy a newspaper. Standing next to me were two builders holding the sun newspaper, opened at page 3. And as I felt their eyes on my body. I was overwhelmed with my personal memories. The degradation and disrespect of being leered at and being only viewed as a sexual object. I do not want my daughter or my granddaughter to have to feel this. To expect this..to accept this.
There are many victims within the realms of pornography. From the detrimental effects on young minds, who have twisted views of females. To the trafficking victims who are forced to perform. To the correlation of pornography and sexual violence. Which includes the increase of child sex attacks, gang rape and the ever increasing 'entertainment rape'.  Which is captured on the internet forever. So, to all those who say "it's harmless fun". It may be for you, who sells it or enjoys looking at it. But you are not on the other end are you?  Please think again, do some research. And you will discover that it's far from harmless. To so many females, in this acceptable and accessible pornified culture of ours.

I hate your sexist publication. And unlike you and your readers that objectify women,I am not proud of being British. This is where your British publication should be..In every British bin. 

Lowest regards,

Suzzan Blac.
You can help by signing the petition to ban page 3!

A child of no consequence.

A child of no consequence.

Yet another rape and death of a child in India.
 

This tiny human being, this little girl, this small daughter..is just one story, plucked out from thousands of similar stories.

This beautiful, innocent girl, died from chronic internal injuries, inflicted by the unbelievable callousness of her rapist.

Human rights were meaningless and non-existent to this poor, defenceless child.

But...If she had been born a child of consequence. If she had been the daughter of a President, a Prime-minister, Royalty, the Elite or even a Celebrity. It would have been a 'Big Deal'.

It would have been a big deal to the mass media, the judiciaries, to society and to the world.

The perpetrator would have been found and brought to justice, swiftly and dealt with severely.

There would have been public outcry and an outpouring of sympathy.

There would maybe, be a change of law. A memorial and maybe a school or children's hospital named after her.

The worlds media would run constant stories, including the arrest and trial of the rapist and murderer. There would be endless internet discussions and documentaries made.

This story would reverberate all around this empathetic planet for many years after.

But...This little girl was not a child of consequence.

Her tiny, damaged body will be buried under the ground and forgotten...just like her story, and the thousands of other stories like hers.

What kind of world do we live in, when only the rapes and deaths of children of consequence are addressed in such worldly regard and the poor and insignificant children are dismissed like yesterdays newspaper.

She was not just one of 'India's daughters' She was one of the Worlds daughters...She was one of my daughters...and she was one of yours. 

This  woman is one of life's real heroes, in my opinion she deserves a nobel prize for helping India's sex-trafficked children. She has seen  first hand..the destruction of childrens raped bodies...please check out her website and help her.

The work of Sunitha Krishnan 

And see her speak here- 

Sunitha TedTalks 

 

The commercialisation of sex crimes

The commercialisation of sex crimes

aka- hard-core / Gonzo pornography

My Thoughts...
Anyone in the world... including children; At the click of a mouse, can actually watch the most sexually violent crimes in the comfort of their own homes, workplace, school or indeed 'on the go'.
In reality, most people would be horrified if they observed say a 'Gang rape' occurring in front of their eyes and would hopefully help the victim by calling the police. And if it were a child who witnessed such a heinous act, would definitely be in need of therapy for PTSD.

Yet...thousands of adults and children are viewing such sexual violence like gang rape, everyday, all over the globe. These crimes have become to many, both accessible and acceptable in this pornified rape culture of ours.
 One of the psychological aspects of this, is that the consumer can view these act's anonymously, giving a sense of legitimacy and the capability of emotional  aversion and detachment.
Adding to this problem is the false belief that the 'actress' is actually enjoying being gang raped. Which are the lies fed to the consumer by the pornographers.
 Being gang raped by numerous  males would be both psychologically and physically incredibly damaging. And as I have said before (please read in my 'sex industry' blog) most of the 'actresses' are either trafficking or self abuse victims.
So, even if some of these actresses are genuinely  'enjoying' being gang raped...that does not account for all those who are forced or coerced into these acts. In other words..you don't really know under what circumstances you are watching.

Therefore, these combined elements, psychologically justifies the acceptable viewing of sexual violence. Whether it be curiosity, sex education, entertainment or self gratification; This fuels the demand for more victims (both within pornography and reality) and increased sexual violence, to satisfy those who's cravings escalate, due to a diminished sexual/emotional responsiveness to over exposure of stimulus. It also becomes a serious addiction that can be incredibly detrimental to their psyche.

Overtime and after excessive exposure, these said acts become so tolerant and acceptable, that they lead to total desensitization. Which in turn, promotes a distorted view of beliefs and attitudes; That women crave and enjoy sexual violence. This is especially significant in many young boy's, who's neurological pathways are not mature enough to form social attitudes, moral behaviour, human complexities and world opinion.
 And added to that is the sexualisation of  many young girls, objectification, sexism and self objectification.  Also, the belief that 'females deserve to be raped because of what society and the judicial system implies, by victim blaming and leniency on the perpetrators. There is also the element of social acceptance and tolerance amongst their peers.

So, it is this and the following generations of immature, misguided and impressionable minds, that should cause most concern.
Already, there is a marked increase of 'child sex crimes' incited by pornography...which includes gang rapes by aged 10- 13 year olds as noted in the media and by police agencies.
There is also a marked increase in 'Entertainment rape' amongst young people, who post and share these crimes as mere entertainment.  I think that the words 'shock value' no longer exists in this so called 'freedom of speech' generation. Where young people view sexual crimes on the internet as humorous and make jokes about such horrendous abuses, such as 'gender based violence' and the 'raping of Babies'.
And my belief is that these crimes committed by children will escalate beyond comprehension in the coming years. So if we don't act now..what will our society become, in terms of moral and virtuous behaviour, serious escalation of sexual violence, physical and psychological harm and safety, sexism and misogyny, increased child sex abuse and immeasurable trafficking victims.
The only thing that I believe in helping to combat these attitudes, beliefs and crimes, is to educate young children, by approved, external agencies within schools.
It seems to me, that this age of the internet is regressing to past barbaric acts of  entertainment and acceptance, such as a 'family day out' at public executions, gladiator slaying's, public viewing of witch burning and feeding religious people to the lions.

The only difference being, is that they don't go and watch public sexual violence collectively. They just click..and share.

Porn actresses

Research on the affect of pornography

The links between pornography and sexual violence

porn and sexual violence

porn increases sexual violence

shocking footage of women abused on porn set

scene from 'hardcore'

Hardcore pornographer

Gonzo pornography

A letter to the man who destroyed my innocence.

 

A letter to the man who destroyed my innocence.

By Suzzan Blac – 1969.

To Don,

Just wanted you to know what has happened to me, since that first day that you came and got me.

This may not mean much to you, you may not even recall those two years that we had together. But this is what it did; and will continue to do to me.

I was sat in the garden playing with a stringed puppet. I was asking her 'if she liked butter' as I moved her face above the buttercups on the lawn, to see the yellow light on her chin.

Suddenly, your giant, seven foot shadow fell on me. I looked up at your smiling face, as you took my hand and said that you had something to show me.

As you led me up the staircase, I thought, that maybe you had a present for me.

But, when we went into the bathroom and you locked the door, I felt that something was very wrong and that I was in trouble.

You led me over to the toilet bowl, and I remember being very confused. Because when you unzipped your trousers, you kept telling me that 'I was such a good girl'.

I didn't know the words for what you did to me and made me do to you. All I thought, was that you were hurting and punishing me. But not in the same way that mother did.

So, just as I took mothers beatings, I took your punishment.

And, although, I did exactly what you wanted; I hated it so much, that I learned how to make the hurt go away, by turning all of the stains and marks on the bathroom wall, into faces.

And if I could do it really well, then it was like; I wasn't with you whilst you did those things.

And, when you punished me in front of mother, she didn't seem to mind, so I thought it was okay, because whenever she hurt me, I didn't know what I had done wrong either.

These punishments of yours lasted about two years, up until mother left you, after you had beaten her badly in front of us.

You may not remember any of this, but I certainly will for the remainder of my life.

I am going to become withdrawn, cynical and mistrusting of everyone. I am going to let others punish me in the way that you did, because I will think that this is how the world is and that I always deserve to be punished because I am always bad. You even told me that it was all my fault because 'I was so pretty'. 

 

Then, when I'm thirteen, I will take drugs and drink a lot of alcohol to escape these punishments, because I can't make faces out of the stains any more now that I'm older and I won't care if I die.

When I am sixteen, I will be abducted into sex trafficking and forced to do pornography and prostitution, because both mother and myself didn't care about anyone taking advantage of me, and I will accept this abduction as my own fault. I will blame myself,  because I was stupid enough to go to London with a complete stranger.

After that, I will become severely depressed, hurt myself and attempt suicide three times.

A Doctor will put me on Valium. I will think, that I myself am mentally disturbed, because I cannot recognise my own abuse. I will live with pain and trauma for the following years.

I will then give birth to a daughter and suffer incredible stress and flashbacks so I will go and seek professional help. This will cause me more stress and trauma due to secondary victimisation by family, friends and social workers.

Years later, I will paint images of your punishments and try to learn about other people like you.

I will find out, that there are millions of you, punishing millions of me, every minute of the day, all over the world. And this in itself will cause me untold distress. As will the fact, that so many of you will not get the punishment that you deserve.

And when I become a grandmother to an innocent baby girl...it will all begin again.

Every move she makes, every word that she speaks, every game that she plays...will remind me of you. You are always next to her.

And one night, when I stay over and sleep next to my daughter. My granddaughter will climb into the bed between us.

I will smile with absolute love and pride. But, it will only lasts a few seconds..because you will climb into the bed with us.

And, although I will try my hardest to get you to leave... you will remain with me until my dying breath.

From Suzzan

aged 8.

The sex industry

  A personal view.


The sex industry, in all it's malignant forms; Abuses and destroys it's victims, to such an extent, that they are no longer human beings.
They are merely fleshed robots, sexual fodder, whore holes, sexual receptacle's, un-dead slaves, who arrived at these God forsaken Hell holes, via multiple reasons and the inevitable consequences of life's tragedies and trauma's.

Many of these women (also males and children) are the victims of sex trafficking, which accounts for the most common form.
Many are lured via the promise of respectable jobs, having themselves or their families threatened. Their passports taken and told that they are in debt to their new owners. Or they are sold or abducted into trafficking, and are controlled by threats, violence and rape.
Then there are the victims of sexual, physical and mental abuse; the prerequisite to prostitution and pornography, who suffer from PTSD. In which there is a continuation of abuse, self loathing, self harm, and a re-inaction of the abuse itself.( Please see my recent post 'A letter to the man who destroyed my innocence'  This is an emotional perspective on PTSD.)
Combined with substance abuse, self worthlessness and de-humanisation and detachment. Which leads to the perpetuating cycle of numbing the pain and trauma of child abuse, with substance abuse and therefore prostituting their bodies in order to buy the substances. And, I stress the word bodies, because that is all they possess. Their minds have long been fragmented, along with their souls.
 Prostitution has always been an oppression of women, as we know 'it's the oldest profession in the world',  enforced by people who viewed their sexual needs as a 'human right' in which Rape was justified and preceded by monetary gain via the sex trade.
 Now, they have gone one step further, by procuring their victims by persuasive and/or threatening coercion and/or forceful measures, in order to obtain the bodies of women and children for no cost or very little. Which means massive profits for the pimps, controllers and pornographers.
There is also evidential correlation between pornography and prostitution and - rape, sexual violence, sex trafficking,sexually motivated homicide, child pornography, abuse and grooming of children...The list goes on.

No one with any decency, morals or virtues, would pimp and sexually exploit a human being.
 That fall's to the sexist, misogynistic and monetary exploitive, sexual deviants, who enjoy the best of both worlds...of making massive profits, whilst enjoying their evil gratifications.

This is simply 'Supply and Demand' for without demand, there would not be this diabolical human suffering of immeasurable and disposable victims.

The statistics of the sex trade

Abuse on a porn set


My hope..is that the world adopts this legislation..to criminalise the clients instead of the prostitutes..and especially that of child prostitutes.

Sweden's 1999 sex trade law

An unedited chapter of my horrific experience in sex trafficking!

EXCLUSIVE!! Please check out an unedited chapter of my horrific time in sex trafficking, posted by my good friend at antipornography.org!

 Also please check out their website whilst you are there, to see the incredible harms of pornography,prostitution,sexual abuse etc..It is a brilliant source of information and education!
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